You’re here because you’re contemplating — or are smack in the middle of a — BIG LIFE CHANGE and are feeling lost and scared.
There’s good news —
You don’t have to do this on your own.
So, here’s what I think. The path to any change, pivot or transition begins with what’s already been successful. Yes, you read that right. We don’t start with what isn’t working, instead we build upon who you already are and all the wins you have accumulated in your life thus far.
This may sound like all kinds of crazy because of why you are here in the first place. You may also be thinking that who you are, what you are doing and where you are, just isn’t working. And you are probably right — for the moment.
But, here’s the real question
Are you really working with the best parts of yourself? Or are you feeling the anxiety of what’s not working? And are those feelings getting in the way of your exploration process. Faced with the reality of change, You can feel lost. You can feel like you failed. You can feel stuck. You can feel confused and afraid. This happens even when we are seeking the change out voluntarily. But all those feelings — as real as they are— and they can feel huge— they don’t define who you are.
So, I’m going to remind you: YOU ARE NOT YOUR FEELINGS.
Silly as this may sound, it may help to say this out loud “I AM NOT MY FEELINGS”. Because your first steps are to separate YOU from those feelings. Of course you have them but your work is not to become them.
What do I do next?
You Create A New Roadmap.
There are 3 parts to the ROADMAP I’ve created and they include FEELING, THINKING and DOING. And yes, I will tell you what to do with them and give you access to some sample worksheets that you can begin using right away.