From the monthly archives:

August 2009

Self-Validation

August 27, 2009

I’m now writing on  Hubpages.com as well as my Blog.  I will be posting additional articles here, there and on ezine.com. This week’s articles are on self-validating and parenting in the 21st century. I hope you enjoy them.

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“If YOU Change, I Will Be Happy”

August 24, 2009

“You Change and I will be happy”
At the heart of every conflict, disappointment and relational frustration is the idea that if the other person changes we will be happier. Think about your last disagreement with someone you cared about.  Was there an intense need to have that other person see things your way and just [...]

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Loving Yourself First

August 20, 2009

How often have you heard the expression “You can’t love someone else until you love yourself?” It sounds corny to think about loving yourself but self-love and the ability to love yourself is at the core of what is called self-esteem.
So what is self-esteem? Self-esteem is the capacity to know your own worth and value [...]

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Is The Past Affecting Your Relationships?

August 15, 2009

I have been thinking a lot about relationships — and not only those we have with our intimate partners. I have been trying to determine a common denominator, the common denominator that stops relationships in their tracks, paralyzes them at times, puts us on the defense and make us unable to work through conflicts and [...]

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I Hurt You, You Hurt Me Back… And Harder.

August 4, 2009

I hurt you, you hurt me back… and harder.
Does this sound familiar — and painful? It can take months to clean up the mess and the aftermath of a dual of hurt and rage — Words generally do more damage than hands. The worst part of an emotional exchange gone wrong is the piggybacking of [...]

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